'I lost my dad at a young age so I want to help other children through difficult times'

Foster carer Sheena has sadly suffered a number of personal tragedies, but she's using her experience to support children and young people.

Sheena's dad died when she was just 10-years-old and later in life her husband was seriously injured in a road traffic collision.  He passed away when their daughter was 12-years-old and their son was 10.

Sheena said: 

"It was hard for my children, but l was able to help them through it by talking about it and not keeping feelings inside.  We have photos up all over the house of both my dad and my husband.

"We have come through some tough times as a family and this is why l wanted to foster to give hope, love and happiness to another child.  l have had enough trauma to help children through theirs."

Sheena, 57, has only been a foster carer with us for a year, but she has made a huge difference to the young girl in her care.

8-year-old Emily, which isn't her real name, had lived in several different homes before she came to live with Sheena.

She has now settled in school and has gone from being unable to read or write to enjoying reading books and practicing her spellings.

Sheena said: 

"What Emily really needed was stability and a family to be there for her.

"She has needed one on one time and support to help her at school and it's made a world of difference. Her behaviour has also improved, and I think having rules, boundaries and a structure has been the making of her.

"I won't lie, like all children she tries to test them at times, but what she's really craved is love and affection which we've showered her with.

"Emily tells us she loves being part of a family of her own, and as a tomboy she enjoys playing football with my son. This older brother relationship is a great benefit.

"My daughter and partner look after Emily so l can have time for a break with my friends.  My daughter is a teacher so she does extra tutoring with Emily."

Lancashire County Council is supporting Foster Care Fortnight, the UK’s biggest foster care awareness campaign, delivered by leading charity The Fostering Network.

Running until Sunday 25 May, this year's theme is The Power of Relationships, to celebrate the vital bonds between those who work together to offer love, warmth and stability to children and young people.

For more information about becoming a foster carer, the events and the support available, visit: www.lancashire.gov.uk/fostering or call 0300 019 0200.